I Am Not Dating Anyone

There s this big misconception out there that being single is an unfortunate relationship.

I am not dating anyone. Healthy kind and respectful relationships. When i refer to a man that i am dating it means that we have talked about seeing where our relationship can go but we also agree that until we figure that out we will not see other people. If you are someone who isn t interested in dating you probably have everyone in your life trying to convince you otherwise. Not dating when you aren t ready or don t have time means you re incredibly smart and genuinely want what s best for yourself.

If you re the same way there s nothing wrong with that. Dating can be compared to job hunting says evan marc katz dating coach for women and author of believe in love if you were unhappy being unemployed you would update your resume talk to friends. By lachlan brown december 19 2017 11 24 am. You only get life once and you re choosing to spend a massive amount of time with one person.

The problem i have with dating with seeking someone to date specifically is that it puts me in a state of want. It means sparing yourself the emotional injury of jumping into every. I knew it wasn t going to be easy i knew it would require extra hard work and i knew i loved him more than i had loved anyone. I don t need to tell you that dating someone is one of the biggest decisions you can possibly make.

It is a totally reasonable option and choice. But like everyone i struggled. For anyone who has ever had a long distance relationship i m sure you ll agree one of the most challenging types of relationships ever. I am single not dating but unbelievably content.

If you are someone who likes to be on your own then that is your decision to make. You re not in a committed relationship with him. It isn t that they can t find someone to date it is that they aren t interested in dating. Although i am not.

Chances are nowadays if a guy is not in a committed relationship with you he s probably dating and talking to lots of other women just like you should be talking to other guys as well. So passionate so many highs and lows. I am in the same situation as you and i agree the world of dating and relationships between men and women has changed and not for better. Being in a state of want makes me feel unfulfilled.

Loners are people who like to be on their own.